Hi Bauss- you are welcome here- there are a few ground rules to keep in mind, however-
It is a general rule in forums like this to steer away from the subject of abortion- Not that that is what you said, I'm just informing you- We would be glad to have you open a thread maybe under the debate section on adoption- although being a relatively small group you may not get much in the line of experience and just get some general advice.
Adoption.com has a birth father support group that you might better find people in a position to give you more insight.