Oh I'm sorry >.< I didn't realize what help was xD
Mine are 15 months apart. My oldest isn't even quite two yet (5 more days or so ;D) and he's not talking all that much. He picks up really fast when you SHOW him, and I have a hand gesture for gentle which works quite well in the cats favor, but he doesn't understand about his brother yet =\
I've tried telling him "Michael that's not nice, you have to place nice" and even when I use a more stern tone he just throws himself into a tantrum. Then we're back at square one.